Win Back My Ex

How To Get Their Trust Back

Breakups can be painful to bear. It can be even more painful when a wonderful relationship is destroyed because of a misunderstanding or small tiffs. It has been seen that breakups can sometimes lead to divorce which can be painful for both parties.

When you lie to your partner, about small or big matters, it breeds an environment of distrust. Once you're caught out in one lie your partner doesn't know whether to believe you in the future. Of course, if you cheated on your spouse things will never be the same. But that doesn't mean it's impossible to get that trust back and create a whole new, much better relationship. 

Click here for expert advice to win back your ex

Often we are faced with a dilemma of choosing to ask for forgiveness or waiting for your ex to do the same. So what do you do to win their trust back?

The primary reasons why relationships fail are due to small problems which when unresolved magnify to pose a serious threat to the foundations of the relationships. The best way to gain the trust of your ex is to identify such areas and work on a solution. It is undoubtedly not easy but an assured way to win back my your ex.

Try to get your ex's attention, but subtly. It should not appear to them that you are the one who is feeling more uncomfortable or lonely. Be strong. Don’t project yourself as weak and needy. Make your ex believe that it is him/her who needs you and not the other way round. It is important for you to make them believe that you are an integral part of their life that is missing at present.

Make your ex feel jealous of your lifestyle after the breakup and make them want to get back to you. You might know a few of their girlfriends/boyfriends before the breakup; use them to your advantage. They are the first ones whom your ex will approach. Ask them for help to fix up a date with your ex to patch up. During a patch up date don’t go overboard and don’t try to look as someone who is trying too hard. Be very honest in your approach and let your ex know that you are ready to work hard so that you could get back together.

Do maintain contact, but try to keep it as minimal as possible. Allow them to clear their minds about their opinions about you. Try to be with them when they are with their friends or are going out somewhere. Try to accompany them but do not force yourself upon them. Be subtle in your approach towards them.

While you are at it, do not be obsessed with your ex. Even though you want to get back with them do not act like a jilted lover hell bent on getting back with him/her. This will further put off your ex.

Getting someone's trust back takes time. Your ex needs to be willing to sit with you and talk. You must both be willing to listen. And YOU must be willing to change yourself, and be open with your partner.

- Article by Brent Johns

If you are really serious about getting your ex back, expert help is available and will increase your chances of success. The best (and lowest cost) way to get this help is by reading TW Jackson's excellent ebook, The Magic of Making Up. TW has already helped over 6,000 couples get back together. 

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